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Breaking Up - Emotional Affair

When it comes to affairs, there would be several different ways you can hurt the one you love, just like there are different types of affairs you could have that could have the same end result. The recently popular hit 'Glee' has brought on new prospects of music, but mainly they pointed out two characters who essentially bare the perfect onset of an affair. Will Schuester and Emma Pillsbury work together in high-school, but to give a brief introduction for those who would not be familiar with the show; Will is a married man who simply carries emotional feelings for Emma. Glee uses music as an essential way to relate to life and words that define it. Music is a way anyone can express themselves when they can't say it out loud. You must be wondering how would these fictional characters reflect the true image of real life? That is simply because what they've been true, is what anyone could say they've been true. They portray the image of what others have experi...

Breaking Up - I don't know who you are

Why is it when you look at the one you love, you just don't feel as though you know anything about them? Sometimes we would find ourselves asking these questions. We wonder why the one we are supposed to feel closest to, is the most distant person in our lives. You just can't figure them out. You either see them as a complete stranger, or you have found yourself forming new relationships and they are deemed the outsider in your intimate relationship. You have a roommate, instead of a partner. Someone you live with, share the bills (if that's the case), and say the occasional greetings, without truly knowing anything about the person you have committed you entire life to. The moment you realize this disconnection from your partner, something is wrong in your relationship and you can either rectify that problem, or get out immediately! The question of not knowing who you are with may come up, because his friends might mention a thing or two about him that you were completely ...

Breaking Up - Where is the love?

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Where is the love we had when we first fell for each other. Where is the love in our marriage? Why am I getting a divorce? How did it get to this point? These are some of the questions we ask our selves when we have reached the lowest of lows in our relationships. There is constant arguing, name calling, you probably even saw him raise that hand for you, just when anger has reached its breaking point, that is when the tears begin and your heart breaks. A friend of mine once told me 'When you find a good man, make sure you hold him by the neck, because there are not many outside' another friend made a reference to the ladies; being a guy himself he mentioned how 'Women are the most complicated beings in the world'. We all have our stories to tell about the opposite sex, each one has their very own complexities, we just can't help it, it's built in us. Both of them had good points though., it often seems that every time we enter into a relationship; 'he's ...