Breaking Up - Trust
You always second guess their move, each time they make one decision, you map out another scenario.
They mention going out with a friend or spending last night by a relative and you always find a way to have something grumbling at the edge of your throat that something doesn't really smell right.
Trust is a significant reliance on the responsibility of others to behave honorably in that you hold a strong confidence in the person you care about. You trust that person to catch you when you are at your lowest. You trust enough with everything you consider to be most valued to you.
Trust is intertwined into a deep friendship and consideration for that party involved in your life. Trust goes both ways, in that you would be able to have that person's back as well, even when they are at their lowest.
Therefore when you lack that essential trust in your relationship and you find yourself looking back to see if that person has their hands out to catch you, that relationship in itself may fall apart.
Many people find different reasons to doubt the person they are with.
Some judge based on past relationships; they were hurt many times before, over and over again they trusted and cared and constantly had an open heart and over and over again they were crushed and found that it was better to live with a closed heart than to risk being hurt again.
I remembered listening to one of Rod Stewart's songs 'No Turning Back' and toward the chorus one of the lines got me thinking...
"...ain't it better to lose in love, than to never love at all"
Isn't it better to have loved someone, to know what love was than to never have loved. People get hurt all the time. Others get burned, crushed, slapped in the face, trampled upon and it hurts like crap to be stabbed in the back by someone you truly believed you loved.
You don't close yourself off from the world or from that new person in your life, permitting yourself to watch them like a hawk because the last person you were with broke your heart and you fear the same thing would happen all over again. The one thing you learn from being hurt in relationships is what you don't do and you grow from what you've learnt. When you judge your new ;partner with old standards chances are things would remain same old same old.
No one likes some who doesn't trust them or would they ever be able to love someone who doesn't trust them.
Trust is essential.
You trust your partner to pick up the groceries, you trust them to pay the bills on time if you couldn't make it and when there is no one else you can count on, you trust them to be your shoulder to lean on don't you? It actually puts a smile on your face when you think about them and how much you can rely on your partner.
The ground rule:
Trust is an essential ingredient, if you don't put trust into your relationship it would be missing something and would fall apart without it.
For more information contact:
lexabuti@hotmail.com
They mention going out with a friend or spending last night by a relative and you always find a way to have something grumbling at the edge of your throat that something doesn't really smell right.
Trust is a significant reliance on the responsibility of others to behave honorably in that you hold a strong confidence in the person you care about. You trust that person to catch you when you are at your lowest. You trust enough with everything you consider to be most valued to you.
Trust is intertwined into a deep friendship and consideration for that party involved in your life. Trust goes both ways, in that you would be able to have that person's back as well, even when they are at their lowest.
Therefore when you lack that essential trust in your relationship and you find yourself looking back to see if that person has their hands out to catch you, that relationship in itself may fall apart.
Many people find different reasons to doubt the person they are with.
Some judge based on past relationships; they were hurt many times before, over and over again they trusted and cared and constantly had an open heart and over and over again they were crushed and found that it was better to live with a closed heart than to risk being hurt again.
I remembered listening to one of Rod Stewart's songs 'No Turning Back' and toward the chorus one of the lines got me thinking...
"...ain't it better to lose in love, than to never love at all"
Isn't it better to have loved someone, to know what love was than to never have loved. People get hurt all the time. Others get burned, crushed, slapped in the face, trampled upon and it hurts like crap to be stabbed in the back by someone you truly believed you loved.
You don't close yourself off from the world or from that new person in your life, permitting yourself to watch them like a hawk because the last person you were with broke your heart and you fear the same thing would happen all over again. The one thing you learn from being hurt in relationships is what you don't do and you grow from what you've learnt. When you judge your new ;partner with old standards chances are things would remain same old same old.
No one likes some who doesn't trust them or would they ever be able to love someone who doesn't trust them.
Trust is essential.
You trust your partner to pick up the groceries, you trust them to pay the bills on time if you couldn't make it and when there is no one else you can count on, you trust them to be your shoulder to lean on don't you? It actually puts a smile on your face when you think about them and how much you can rely on your partner.
The ground rule:
Trust is an essential ingredient, if you don't put trust into your relationship it would be missing something and would fall apart without it.
For more information contact:
lexabuti@hotmail.com
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