Breaking Up - Emotional Affair
When it comes to affairs, there would be several different ways you can hurt the one you love, just like there are different types of affairs you could have that could have the same end result.
The recently popular hit 'Glee' has brought on new prospects of music, but mainly they pointed out two characters who essentially bare the perfect onset of an affair.
Will Schuester and Emma Pillsbury work together in high-school, but to give a brief introduction for those who would not be familiar with the show; Will is a married man who simply carries emotional feelings for Emma. Glee uses music as an essential way to relate to life and words that define it. Music is a way anyone can express themselves when they can't say it out loud.
You must be wondering how would these fictional characters reflect the true image of real life? That is simply because what they've been true, is what anyone could say they've been true. They portray the image of what others have experienced themselves. You must also pose the question to yourself, they haven't kissed or even crossed that line linked to infidelity? The answer is they have. How you may ask, because this man 'Will' has replaced his emotional feelings for his wife and has vested them into another woman. It might not be a physical affair, but it is an emotional one, frankly that one is far worse.
Putting these characters aside; you are in a relationship and you wonder if your partner in life is having an affair. The only way you would know for certain is if you realize one thing; so long as they are distant and unable to confide in you as they would, or you sense a pull from the relationship, something is wrong.
The only thing about emotional affairs is that they last forever, they stay with you for a very long time, because you took moments to get close to someone, to know them and understand and most importantly, you let them into your heart and it would be painful if you ever were away. This sounds like a marriage-almost if they weren't married to someone else.
A husband or wife would know, they would just know. If they say they don't,then it's denial.
Will and Emma gave the insight into this feed. The show presents him with a wife who he believes to be pregnant (Ignore the fake pregnancy, the fact is He Believes His Wife Is Pregnant) and subconsciously he pursues a relationship.
Lexa
i love glee. :)
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